Terrence Howard will be getting married after proposing to his ex-wife Mira Pak, after three years of being secretly divorced. 

The Empire star announced the news by posting a photo of the stunning diamond designed by Ben Baller on Instagram. He also posted a photo of Mira wiping away a tear during the proposal, as well as a video of him making a toast.

“We have an idea of how long we think life is, but we do know how short it can be,” he said in the video. “It took me 45 years to find you, my love. It took me 45 years to find you. But now that I have you in my 50th year, I will spend the rest of eternity at your side. And I pray that everybody finds that one that will complete them for all eternity because it means everything. I love you.”

We’re not crying. You are!

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Thank you @benballer @ifandco The Most Gifted Jeweler in The World!!! Valentines coming soon, let’s show them how to truly Love your Woman! @jeanneyangstyle get ready this a family affair! @crustaceanbh thank you for making the night extra special. #bloodisthickerthanwaterbutloveisthegluethatbindsus

A post shared by Terrence Dashon Howard (@theterrencehoward) on Dec 25, 2018 at 9:34am PST