Mary J. Blige’s husband Martin “Kendu” Isaacs recently filed court documents alleging that he “has experienced physical manifestations of stress and emotional distress” from the case “which has caused him to become hospitalized,” according to The Blast.

Mary had accused Martin of spending at least $420,000 on his new girlfriend in April 2017. They’re set to go to trial in March.

“All these years have come to this, like you didn’t even pick me, you picked somebody else,” she said in her documentary Strength of a Woman. “That s–t is humiliating. It hurt real bad. But … they got beds, we gotta lay in it.And just so we’re clear … Do not let her anywhere near what you’re doing for me, because she’s the reason for all of this s–t. That’s my Becky with the good hair!”