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Big Bang Theory’s Jim Parsons married Todd Spiewak this weekend at the Rainbow Room in New York City. The couple have been together for 14 years — that’s a long time!

“I met this guy… 14 years ago today and it was the best thing that ever happened to me, no contest,” Jim wrote on Instagram. He also added, “One of his greatest gifts to me is that he no longer takes me to sing karaoke. Also, I believe this was a selfie with an actual camera, as our phones couldn’t do that back then hahaha!”

When Jim came out publicly in 2012, he and Todd had been together for 10 years already. In 2014, he told Ellen DeGeneres they were in no rush to get married.

I guess they changed their minds. Congrats!