Jane Fonda Opens Up to Brie Larson About Her Own Sexual Assault
In an interview for Net-a-Porterâs The Edit, Jane Fonda opened up about the struggles sheâs had to battle due to the patriarchy of society while being interviewed by actress and sexual assault advocate Brie Larson:
“To show you the extent to which a patriarchy takes a toll on females; Iâve been raped, Iâve been sexually abused as a child and Iâve been fired because I wouldnât sleep with my boss and I always thought it was my fault; that I didnât do or say the right thing.
âI know young girls whoâve been raped and didnât even know it was rape. They think, âIt must have been because I said âno” the wrong way,ââ Jane continued. âOne of the great things the womenâs movement has done is to make us realize that [rape and abuse is] not our fault. We were violated and itâs not right.â
Jane and Brie also talked about the importance of saying NO: “Unlike you, Brie, it took me 60 years to learn how to say no. If anyone offered me anything I would say yes. I took parts I wasnât right for and I was taken advantage of. I didnât know how to stand up for myself. Now, I would say, âNo. This is a piece of sh*t. I donât like the way youâre treating me,â and leave. If only I had known then what I do nowâŠ
“I regret that I wasnât a better parent,â Jane said. âI didnât know how to do it. But you can learn, so I studied how to be a parent. Itâs never too late. I am trying to make up for what I didnât know before. When I die, I want my family to be around me. I want them to love me and I have to earn that. Iâm still working at it.â