After a semi media firestorm, a source told Entertainment Tonight that Tori Spelling’s marriage is in shambles.

“Tori and Dean’s marriage is in shambles despite having a sit down last week to try to make it work. They made an attempt to use the tools given to them by their therapist to create a healthy environment for the kids but it isn’t working,” the source says. “One of Tori’s main issues with Dean is he isn’t helping with the kids as much as she feels he should. He used to do everything but has stepped away and started taking more time for himself.”

They added: “Dean is trying to be calm and handle things. He doesn’t want to raise his voice or say anything that she could misconstrue to the police.”

“She panics every time he is out,” the source also alleges. “If she doesn’t know exactly where he is, her anxiety goes through the roof. She seems to live in fear he will cheat again.”

Well here’s to hoping they work it out!